adjustment of status while submitting asylum

[tigy]

Please advise me!! I applied for asylum in Virginia and I got married to U.S. citizen and moved to MN . I just filled adjustment of status and to my surprise I got called for asylum interview in Virginia one day after I submit a change of address . I guess that did not receive the update . I don't want to attend the interview . I want to proceed with my adjustment of status first but I don't want my asylum case to be clothed. Is there a way to tell them to hold my case? If there is where do I submit the request in MN or Virginia since I already filled change of address ?? Please help