what do i do

[Gchelp1969]

So guys this is my story. I met my wife in late 2015 we went out and got married about 10 months from then.

Feb 2016 filed for i 130
April filed i 485 and EAD

July I 130 APPROVED

November i 485 interview.
Didn't go well, my wife behaved strangely was really upset and she answered a question wrongly. few days later got a letter says "call in" my name was on it and it asked for some documents. I went to the office with the documents alone, only to find out it was supposed to be another interview. The IO told me she will reschedule the interview date, I am yet to get any interview letter in my mail. Am not worried about the second interview because i believe we know each other well. Now here is the BOMB. I just found out my wife is pregnant with another mans child, she has been cheating on me. I never saw this coming, even though her behavior has changed for a couple of months now I would have never expected this to happen. Now i don't know what to do. Because there if definitely no way forward for me and her, GC or no GC i can not remain with her. There is no going back from this. As of now, she move out of this house and is staying with her grand ma. Things are really bad.

This is what i plan on doing.

I am thinking i should let the immigration know what happened, divorce and withdraw my i 485 petition and leave the country. My only concern is, will i be able to apply for visa again. I will be eligible for J1 visa based of residency training.

Or what else can I do. Even if things calm down and we decide to attend the second interview and the case gets approved. I don't see the marriage lasting for a long time, which might further complicate issues.

What do u guys think

[azblk]

So guys this is my story. I met my wife in late 2015 we went out and got married about 10 months from then.

Feb 2016 filed for i 130
April filed i 485 and EAD

July I 130 APPROVED

November i 485 interview.
Didn't go well, my wife behaved strangely was really upset and she answered a question wrongly. few days later got a letter says "call in" my name was on it and it asked for some documents. I went to the office with the documents alone, only to find out it was supposed to be another interview. The IO told me she will reschedule the interview date, I am yet to get any interview letter in my mail. Am not worried about the second interview because i believe we know each other well. Now here is the BOMB. I just found out my wife is pregnant with another mans child, she has been cheating on me. I never saw this coming, even though her behavior has changed for a couple of months now I would have never expected this to happen. Now i don't know what to do. Because there if definitely no way forward for me and her, GC or no GC i can not remain with her. There is no going back from this. As of now, she move out of this house and is staying with her grand ma. Things are really bad.

This is what i plan on doing.

I am thinking i should let the immigration know what happened, divorce and withdraw my i 485 petition and leave the country. My only concern is, will i be able to apply for visa again. I will be eligible for J1 visa based of residency training.

Or what else can I do. Even if things calm down and we decide to attend the second interview and the case gets approved. I don't see the marriage lasting for a long time, which might further complicate issues.

What do u guys think

Cheating aside, how do yo the child is not yours? On a practical note what was your status before you filed i-485? Did you keep that status valid all through your AOS? Because if you were out of status before applying for AOS you could be subject to the 3 or 10 years ban if you leave the country.

[inadmissible]

Your chances of obtaining a non-immigrant visa in the future is very, very poor. You should consider reconciling with your wife, at least until you become a permanent resident

[miiki]

Your timeline seems a little off. You met her "late" 2015, got married 10 months later, then filed 130 in Feb 2016... Not knowing exactly when you got married, the latest you could have met her is April 2015, which I don't consider "late" in the year.

Like another poster asked, how do you know the child isn't yours? (rhetorical) You guys stopped having sex and she cheated less than a year into the marriage.

But all that aside, maybe you can talk to her calmly and get her to cooperate with you getting your green card since she's in the wrong. You can divorce her after.