Which catergory I belong to?

[zhaohui]

My husband and I filed employment based greencard separately before we married. After we married, I had mine refiled to be his dependence before his EB2 petition was approved. Now he received the greencard already. But mine I-485 is still pending. My question is when I look up the visa bulletin right now, do I look at family-based or employ-based? which catergory do I belong to? which country should I look at(my own country or my husband's country?)

I am really confused. I appreciate if somebody can really make everything clear for me.