i believe 100% that i have been used by my immigrant husband to get his green card. i am an american citizen we have been married since 1/9/06 our "interview" for his green card took place on 3/24/08, two weeks later he was approved for a non conditional green card. i am currently 7 months pregnant as well, and now alone left to raise my precious baby girl by myself. i feel hurt, depressed, and alone. i have found out he has been lying to me about a lot of things, and now that he has been approved everything has gone straight down hill. we have never really lived together i was always living in another apartment and he had always had a different apartment. and when ever i would want him to move in official he would always make up some excuse. WHAT DO I DO? i cant go on like this i loved him and still do with all my heart but the feelings are all of a sudden not mutual. how can you call yourself loving someone deeply right up until you get your green card and then poof, everything changes. he does mention he will be there for his baby get her what she needs but thats not the issue you should do thast regardless what happend to being responsible for your "family" your wife and child. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO, PLEASE.