Need Desperate Help! (I-485)

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My wife entered the US on a K-1 visa, we were married within 90 days, but did not immediately apply for AOS. We were advised as long as we got married within 90 days, we could file an I-485 at any time. We filed I485 at the 26 month after her arrival. At our interview, we were need to file an I-130, which we did and have an approval. The interview will have to take place back at the consulate in the philippines. My problem is this: I understand that once she leave the US, she triggers a 10 year bar, unless she gets a waiver. Does anyone have any advise.

We have a 3 year old daughter and I can not risk losing my daughters mother and my wife for 10 years.

Any assistance is greatly appreciated,

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