Hi.. My boyfriend wants to join the army and will be taking the ASVAB test on thursday. I no that of he joins and we get married I will be able to apply for parole in place and then AOS. My issue I'm having is how would I prove our relationship. He's 21 and im 20 we've been together 2years in August and we have no kids. Our names aren't o anything together. How do we prove our relationship is real and not fraud?? Do we get married before he goes in or after??We live in NY