Hello all,
As US expat in the EU, I find myself spending a lot time in forums these days
I am a US citizen married to a EU national, who has been living the EU for the last 6 years. We were married 5 years ago in San Francisco (my hometown) and although my spouse has never lived in the US, the correct ESTA and US sentry and exit criteria was religiously followed each time we visited the US.
Each year I religiously file my US taxes, disclosing foreign income and banking (FBAR/FATCA), and have been listing my NRA spouse since I file as married, filing single. i realize that not that any of this really matters or can help fast track my spouses I-130 form but I am hoping something beneficial comes out of following the rules. Due to lack of career opportunities and advancement in the EU (surprising huh), I want to move back to the US and bring my EU national spouse. We just filed the I-130 & I-130A with the Chicago Lockbox and had our first issue with my EU based credit card being rejected (ugh) so thankfully a friend will help out with a US based personal check. Minor bump in the road so my bigger concerns and why I am posting in this forum is to see if there are other couples filing outside the US who have similar concerns about the process that we do, for example:
1. According to what I have read, my spouse cannot legally enter the US while the I-130 is processing, so if I move back to re-establish myself, my spouse cannot join me until the process is complete?? Is "complete" when the GC is approved or issued?
2. If I to move back the US to accept a job offer (I am actively interviewing now), my spouse will return to Belgium (home country, since we are currently in Italy) and we are concerned that the interview process having complications since my spouse will be only living temporarily back in Belgium (in an airbnb no doubt). Does anyone know if this matters? We had the foresight to list Brussels as the US Embassy for the interview, but I want to ensure we do not cause more issues along the way.
3. Because we are in Italy and Rome is the only USCIS location, we opted to send our form directly to the Chicago Lockbox (if you have ever lived in Italy or tried to deal with the Italian bureaucratic process and unreliable postal system, you would hav done the same). I see many posts that say Chicago feeds the Nebraska NVC (which we are hoping for), does anyone know the routing process? For example: both Nebraska and Vermont have 5-9 month process average times, whereas California has 18-32 moths or something insane like that! My permanent address is in SF, however we will not be moving there so we are a little worried that our application will be routed there by default due to my permanent address... mamma mia!
4. Too much movement. We traveled extensively during the first few years of our relationship and marriage, so we have lived at multiple addresses over the last 5 years (4 countries and many short-term apartments - all via Airbnb and short term rental agencies so can be tracked electronically). I supplied a very detailed list as an addendum as recommended but because we were not "stable" and ideas on if this will this impact us negatively?
5. My spouse does not currently work or earn an income and if we are separated while the GC is processing (7-12 months!) the financial burden can become significant - especially since neither of us have family that can support us during this transition. Anyone know if there is a work around to this? Immigration is never easy and we have survived the EU immigration process for 3 countries, but then again were together and not separated.
6. Bona Fide Marriage evidence. We are a modern and very unconventional couple and since this was a second marriage for both of us, our priorities were different so we do not have wedding photos, we did not legally take on each others names, nor do we own property together or mix finances, so the only evidence we could offer was my taxes for the last 4 years where my spouse is listed, extensive long haul travel itineraries and visa on arrival letters, the US marriage certificate, and the EU country residency documents that reference my family based residency. I am starting to wonder is this is enough?
Naturally all immigration scenarios are difficult and I do not think we are any kind of exception to the rules or unique, like most of you we are freaked out and concerned about the unknown timeframes or hold ups our application will have based on gaps or lack of suitable evidence. If anyone has a similar experience, words of wisdom, or motivational antidotes, we would love to hear them in solidarity and hope!
Thanks for reading and any feedback would be helpful...
As US expat in the EU, I find myself spending a lot time in forums these days
I am a US citizen married to a EU national, who has been living the EU for the last 6 years. We were married 5 years ago in San Francisco (my hometown) and although my spouse has never lived in the US, the correct ESTA and US sentry and exit criteria was religiously followed each time we visited the US.
Each year I religiously file my US taxes, disclosing foreign income and banking (FBAR/FATCA), and have been listing my NRA spouse since I file as married, filing single. i realize that not that any of this really matters or can help fast track my spouses I-130 form but I am hoping something beneficial comes out of following the rules. Due to lack of career opportunities and advancement in the EU (surprising huh), I want to move back to the US and bring my EU national spouse. We just filed the I-130 & I-130A with the Chicago Lockbox and had our first issue with my EU based credit card being rejected (ugh) so thankfully a friend will help out with a US based personal check. Minor bump in the road so my bigger concerns and why I am posting in this forum is to see if there are other couples filing outside the US who have similar concerns about the process that we do, for example:
1. According to what I have read, my spouse cannot legally enter the US while the I-130 is processing, so if I move back to re-establish myself, my spouse cannot join me until the process is complete?? Is "complete" when the GC is approved or issued?
2. If I to move back the US to accept a job offer (I am actively interviewing now), my spouse will return to Belgium (home country, since we are currently in Italy) and we are concerned that the interview process having complications since my spouse will be only living temporarily back in Belgium (in an airbnb no doubt). Does anyone know if this matters? We had the foresight to list Brussels as the US Embassy for the interview, but I want to ensure we do not cause more issues along the way.
3. Because we are in Italy and Rome is the only USCIS location, we opted to send our form directly to the Chicago Lockbox (if you have ever lived in Italy or tried to deal with the Italian bureaucratic process and unreliable postal system, you would hav done the same). I see many posts that say Chicago feeds the Nebraska NVC (which we are hoping for), does anyone know the routing process? For example: both Nebraska and Vermont have 5-9 month process average times, whereas California has 18-32 moths or something insane like that! My permanent address is in SF, however we will not be moving there so we are a little worried that our application will be routed there by default due to my permanent address... mamma mia!
4. Too much movement. We traveled extensively during the first few years of our relationship and marriage, so we have lived at multiple addresses over the last 5 years (4 countries and many short-term apartments - all via Airbnb and short term rental agencies so can be tracked electronically). I supplied a very detailed list as an addendum as recommended but because we were not "stable" and ideas on if this will this impact us negatively?
5. My spouse does not currently work or earn an income and if we are separated while the GC is processing (7-12 months!) the financial burden can become significant - especially since neither of us have family that can support us during this transition. Anyone know if there is a work around to this? Immigration is never easy and we have survived the EU immigration process for 3 countries, but then again were together and not separated.
6. Bona Fide Marriage evidence. We are a modern and very unconventional couple and since this was a second marriage for both of us, our priorities were different so we do not have wedding photos, we did not legally take on each others names, nor do we own property together or mix finances, so the only evidence we could offer was my taxes for the last 4 years where my spouse is listed, extensive long haul travel itineraries and visa on arrival letters, the US marriage certificate, and the EU country residency documents that reference my family based residency. I am starting to wonder is this is enough?
Naturally all immigration scenarios are difficult and I do not think we are any kind of exception to the rules or unique, like most of you we are freaked out and concerned about the unknown timeframes or hold ups our application will have based on gaps or lack of suitable evidence. If anyone has a similar experience, words of wisdom, or motivational antidotes, we would love to hear them in solidarity and hope!
Thanks for reading and any feedback would be helpful...
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