Need some advice please!!!!!!!!!!!

[mesbahul]

I am an asylee who will be applying for GC in Jan 2008. The problem I am facing is my fiancee is in my Country of Persecution(COP). I am intending to get married to her here in the U.S. and she would go back to COP. After I get approved for GC, I am intending to do a Follow-to-Join. Anybody have any experience with this? I was reading and many of them have done this successfully where the spouse are getting their GC within months of arriving here. Some people are also telling me that I cannot do a Follow-to-Join because I am an asylee.

Pros please chime in with your experience and knowledge.