New here- really need help

[Helpm06]

Hi friends.

I m going through a lot right now. Please help me.

So i came us in march 2010 on k1 visa from india and got married here. As i dont have my family here and his whole family is here and lthey all live together they were really nice for 2 months but then they started thretning me for each n every thing that they will cancell my paper work and will send me that they told everybody here that i m here for paper work. They abuse me a lot but it was verbal abuse. But it broke me bad bcoz i dont kno anybody here and they dont let me talk to my parents. No phone nothing so in 2012 i decided to leave and i went to india i stayed there for almost 6 months at my parents i was happy n realaxed and all of sudden one day they called and said they accept there mistakes and want me to come back my hubby aplozie for wate er happned. We decided to give a chance to our relationship. When i came back they were really nice i was happy that everything is normal. But then i found that they called me here bcoz all there reletives were blaming them so they had pressure but by the time i found that i was 2 months pregnant. So far i got biometrics done and applied for I-751. Its still in process have interview on march 6 2014. And i gave birth to a baby boy on feb 19 2014. Now as baby is only 10 days old today they called my family and told them that thay dont need me anymore they gonna keep baby here and will cancel my paperwork. They did my tickts for next week. I dont wanna leave my baby. Please help me and tell me my rights please i really need it.

[rayb]

Your relatives cannot legally force you to return to India, nor "legally" take your baby from you without court intervention.

To protect yourself and your child, you need to find a "neutral" location where you can't be hurt or pressured and where you can obtain good legal advice. A woman's shelter is the most immediate possibility for the type of protection and advice you need. Please tell us in what city you are in or close to and locations/contact information for shelters can be given to you.

--Ray B

Hi friends.

I m going through a lot right now. Please help me.

So i came us in march 2010 on k1 visa from india and got married here. As i dont have my family here and his whole family is here and lthey all live together they were really nice for 2 months but then they started thretning me for each n every thing that they will cancell my paper work and will send me that they told everybody here that i m here for paper work. They abuse me a lot but it was verbal abuse. But it broke me bad bcoz i dont kno anybody here and they dont let me talk to my parents. No phone nothing so in 2012 i decided to leave and i went to india i stayed there for almost 6 months at my parents i was happy n realaxed and all of sudden one day they called and said they accept there mistakes and want me to come back my hubby aplozie for wate er happned. We decided to give a chance to our relationship. When i came back they were really nice i was happy that everything is normal. But then i found that they called me here bcoz all there reletives were blaming them so they had pressure but by the time i found that i was 2 months pregnant. So far i got biometrics done and applied for I-751. Its still in process have interview on march 6 2014. And i gave birth to a baby boy on feb 19 2014. Now as baby is only 10 days old today they called my family and told them that thay dont need me anymore they gonna keep baby here and will cancel my paperwork. They did my tickts for next week. I dont wanna leave my baby. Please help me and tell me my rights please i really need it.

[Helpm06]

Hi
Thnx for reply. I live in linden,NJ. As i said there is no physicall abuse its just mental abuse so i dont have any proofs agaist them .

[rayb]

I'll post some contacts for women's shelters and assistance later on tonight or tomorrow morning where you can seek help locally.

--Ray B

Hi
Thnx for reply. I live in linden,NJ. As i said there is no physicall abuse its just mental abuse so i dont have any proofs agaist them .

[rayb]

Contact the following for possible emergency shelter and assistance in your area:

Sadaqa House For Women
East Orange, NJ
973 280 9109

Real House Inc Women Shelter in Montclair New Jersey
Montclair, NJ
973-746-2400

Also contact the Union County Division of Social Services, at: 908-965-3706

All the above may not be exactly what you need, but they should be able to give you other referrals or good advice.

--Ray B

I'll post some contacts for women's shelters and assistance later on tonight or tomorrow morning where you can seek help locally.

--Ray B

[Helpm06]

But can i stay in this country legaly as my baby born here?

[rayb]

Yes, but you will need to obtain legal help to complete the Adjustment o Status, or to self-petition as an abused spouse.

--Ray B

But can i stay in this country legaly as my baby born here?

[Helpm06]

Can you please provide me any contact info of an attorny or lawyer who can atleast give free advice. I cant find anything. And no money either. As he was the one taking care of everything.

[rayb]

The links I gave you earlier will provide referrals to legal help in your area. Such specialized help is usually provided as a service by law students.

--Ray B

Can you please provide me any contact info of an attorny or lawyer who can atleast give free advice. I cant find anything. And no money either. As he was the one taking care of everything.

[Helpm06]

Alright . I will contact them first in the morning

[Harshit2014]

NRI Banking | NRI Services

Hey Guys, Can you suggest me which bank would be preferd for NRI banking? Had gone through IDBI Bank NRI service or some other bank. As IDBI Bank offers basic NRI banking products like Non Resident Rupee Checking Account, Non Resident Rupee Term Deposits and Foreign Currency Non Resident Deposit. suggest me on this basis.
Please suggest me. .

[dub444]

Last minute help?

Thanks in advance to all who take the time to read this.
I have somewhat of an urgent problem that I’m hoping I can get some feedback on here.* I received an RFE saying I did not submit a copy of my physical green card and I must send it by 1-Apr-14.* I am applying to remove my conditional residence via marriage which is completely legit and we have a two year old son together.* My problem is that I lost my actual green card and don’t know how to proceed or who I can contact at USCIS to inquire.* I can only find recordings at all the numbers.*
Anyhow, it’s my understanding that my conditional residence green card expires after the two year period which has passed.* Given my financial situation I have procrastinated in replacing it as it’s $485, and if it is expired, I figured I do not need to pay that to replace it.
Is there anything I can do to satisfy the RFE or do I need to buy replacement card?* And now as I have left it down to the wire, have I screwed myself?* I have completely legit and happy marriage and family, but I am scared I may be jeopardizing my situation by being so late against the deadline?* Has anyone else been through anything similar?* How did it get resolved??
Any help is VERY MUCH appreciated!
Best Regards,
dub

[rayb]

If you respond to the RFE with a message that you lost your Green Card and do not have a copy of it, one or two responses are likely:

1. Your I-751 procedure will be denied, though you can later reapply when you have a copy of the card.
2. You will be asked to provide a receipt for a replacement card (I-90).

You really have no choice but to respond to the RFE before the deadline, and it is even possible that they will give you a pass.

--Ray B

Thanks in advance to all who take the time to read this.
I have somewhat of an urgent problem that I’m hoping I can get some feedback on here.* I received an RFE saying I did not submit a copy of my physical green card and I must send it by 1-Apr-14.* I am applying to remove my conditional residence via marriage which is completely legit and we have a two year old son together.* My problem is that I lost my actual green card and don’t know how to proceed or who I can contact at USCIS to inquire.* I can only find recordings at all the numbers.*
Anyhow, it’s my understanding that my conditional residence green card expires after the two year period which has passed.* Given my financial situation I have procrastinated in replacing it as it’s $485, and if it is expired, I figured I do not need to pay that to replace it.
Is there anything I can do to satisfy the RFE or do I need to buy replacement card?* And now as I have left it down to the wire, have I screwed myself?* I have completely legit and happy marriage and family, but I am scared I may be jeopardizing my situation by being so late against the deadline?* Has anyone else been through anything similar?* How did it get resolved??
Any help is VERY MUCH appreciated!
Best Regards,
dub

[dub444]

So the receipt of the I90 what you are saying is regardless I must pay the $485 to replace?

Thanks for the reply.

Dub

[rayb]

Not necessarily. What I suggested is that you respond to the RFE BEFORE THE DEADLINE and explain that the Green Card was lost, then see how they will respond to you. But not responding by the deadlline will definitely get you a denial and loss of the $590 fee you paid.

--Ray B

Since you are already out $570, to spend any more money until you are sure of the outcome would be premature.

So the receipt of the I90 what you are saying is regardless I must pay the $485 to replace?

Thanks for the reply.

Dub