co sponsor needed

[MarjoleinlovesMichael]

Dear people,

My desperation has caused me to forget about my pride and hope that there is anyone out there that has a caring and helpful soul to want to help an unknown person. I am in need of a co sponsor. I have tried everything, and when I say everything I mean everything. My dutch family is so small, and my American boyfriends family is too. He is disabled and doesnt meet the minimum financial requirement. His mum wanted to help but because her two sons live at home, she must meet a high requirement. She can't even if she wanted to. I am getting physically sick being away from my love. And it is easy to say find someone else. Who want to look for rocks when they found a diamond? I hope that one of you that is reading this wants to help us. And I would love to build a friendship if that is possible with the co sponsor. Because the co sponsor would make me (dutch girl) my American fiancee (who is disabled) and my step daughter (who lives with her mom most of the time, and who suffers from epilepsy and autism). I want nothing more then to be back with my family, where I found my home. Help is hard to find these days. I know the person who wants to sponsor us would be heaven send, and would make us more then happy. It would make us whole. Who, which blessed would and could help us? If u would or want more info then this is my email: [email protected]


Thank you thank you thank you

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Your fiance's mother can combine her income with that of her two son's income, for the purpose of being a co-sponsor.

You, your fiance, or his mother can use liquid assets to satisfy the shortfall. The amount of assets needed is three times the shortfall.

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Your fiance can count his Social Security Disability Insurance payments as income for the purpose of meeting sponsorship requirements.

Have you considered just having him come live in the Netherlands instead of you going to live in the United States? He might then be able to collect WWB social assistance in addition to his SSDI, and you can stay close to your step-daughter.

[MarjoleinlovesMichael]

Problem is that my stepdaughter, or who will be my stepdaughter is his daughter. And she has her mum in America. I wish Holland was a possibility. I know his mum wanted to put her salary with his, but she has two grown up sons living with her. Does she have to count those two grown up sons to meet the financial requirement? Because they are adults, and they both work?


if I clearly understood. He, my fiancee's salary can be added with his mums, even if they do not live in the same house?



I had a co sponsor only they were reading all the info written on the uscis sire and they Got scared. Is it really risky, or what would u advice me to say to them, to inform them. They are really busy people with hardly spare time. So if they would have done it, the they would still think it might take a long time to fill in.


What is wwb anyway?


Is there a way I can email you to explain my private situation? For some reason I can only open this page on my phone. If so, I understand privacy reasons, this is my email: [email protected]


You seem to know a lot, and honestly, your the only one with the exception of one person who has ever responded to me in 3 month time.


I was in America in April and I am going back in September. Because I can't do without him. And then it would be not going back for a long time, and we have to Skype, whatsap and ******** again.



I had another important question. My uncle died last year, and his home is for sale. I am from the Netherlands and my boyfriend/fiancee from America. I have read that if you can't meet the requirements that u can pay money, that every dollar u don't have you have to pay 5 dollars. Is that correct? And knowing my fiancee doesn't have mobey or assets, can it be from my side? I know my mother wanted to loan it to us, to show we would have savings, when the house is sold, which can take years. Is that allowed? And will they keep the money or just look at it to know we have enough money to survive? I know a lot of questions. Besides being a caretaker and taking care of people who are mentally and physically disabled for volubteerwork I spend all my time searching for answers, to find a way. And if I would get a work permit through a place of work, can it be every kind of work. Like working in a store if it is work? Or must it be a higher education?


I hope someone can help me please xxx Marjolein

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I know his mum wanted to put her salary with his, but she has two grown up sons living with her. Does she have to count those two grown up sons to meet the financial requirement? Because they are adults, and they both work?

She counts her two household members only either of two conditions: (1) She treats them as dependents for tax purposes, or (2) They will join her in pledging income/assets towards your sponsorship.

if I clearly understood. He, my fiancee's salary can be added with his mums, even if they do not live in the same house?

Yes. Let me clarify the jargon. Your fiance is your financial sponsor. His mother is the 1st joint sponsor.

I had a co sponsor only they were reading all the info written on the uscis sire and they Got scared. Is it really risky, or what would u advice me to say to them, to inform them. They are really busy people with hardly spare time. So if they would have done it, the they would still think it might take a long time to fill in.

It certainly is very risky, given that both you and your fiance have limited earning capacity.

What is wwb anyway?

Wet Work en Bijstand

I had another important question. My uncle died last year, and his home is for sale. I am from the Netherlands and my boyfriend/fiancee from America. I have read that if you can't meet the requirements that u can pay money, that every dollar u don't have you have to pay 5 dollars. Is that correct? And knowing my fiancee doesn't have mobey or assets, can it be from my side? I know my mother wanted to loan it to us, to show we would have savings, when the house is sold, which can take years. Is that allowed? And will they keep the money or just look at it to know we have enough money to survive?

The intending immigrant can indeed pledge her assets, you will need to show three times the shortfall in required income. You will not post the cash as a bond, but instead show bank statements evidencing your ownership. As it is common for people to borrow funds for this purpose, they will want to look back at your statements for months and have you explain how you got this money. It would work fine if your mother gifted the money to you, and wrote an affidavit stating as such.

Besides being a caretaker and taking care of people who are mentally and physically disabled for volubteerwork I spend all my time searching for answers, to find a way. And if I would get a work permit through a place of work, can it be every kind of work. Like working in a store if it is work? Or must it be a higher education?

As a permanent resident, you will be able to engage in any kind of employment or self-employment, even a job as a store clerk. Keep in mind that life is much harsher here in the United States than in Europe, for someone without lucrative skills.

[MarjoleinlovesMichael]

Hi,


U said that If I use the inherited money my mother will get from her late brother, that that is fine. Can it be like this: what if my mother in fact loans me the money but says on paper she gave it as a gift, and I give it back to her when I am with my love?

And u said 3 times the shortage, now I am confused. I have read online it needs to be 5 times?


So the goverment is not taking the money? They just need to know we can take care of ourselves?


So If I get it right, the income of my boyfriend should be filled until we got the two person financial requirement plus the three times shortage?


I apologize for asking many questions your really helpful :-)


thank you for all your help thusfar

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False statements to US immigration authorities usually ends in tears.

I'm curious how you are planning to support yourself in the United States, living below the federal poverty line

[MarjoleinlovesMichael]

Hi,


Well it isn't a false statement though. It depends if we sell my uncles home against the price we sell it for. We as her children get our own share of the money, it depends on how much it is going to be. His sister said she would help me to do "work" before I can do work so to say. And I have (from my earlier live) always needed to get by with less than little money. I know the blows of the whip. We know we have to live soberly. And that will not be such a big problem as people think it will be. We know factly how much we can live of, and if I am accepted I hope to get a green card fast so I can go to work. I have several places that want to hire me, only can't right now because I don't know if I am allowed to come or not. I actually think the financial requirement is stupid in some cases. So they rather have people with a big wallet that will end up in divorce to be together instead of true love? And that one person is meeting the financial requirement isn't always correct to. Anything can happen for them to lose income. Btw are you dutch because you were telling me about wwb?


Is it truly three times the difference, and not five? Why do I read about five then? That is confusing


Oh and I am saving money in the mean time while I am in Holland. That money I will take with me too. We will survive as long as we get the chance

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The general rule is 5 times the shortfall, but for spouse petitions it is 3 times. If you can get the cash, you'll be good to go.

The financial rules are in place to protect the public fisc. Elected representatives established these rules in 1996 in response to a perceived influx of immigrants who would end up on welfare. It is true that anyone with income could lose their job, but they are more likely to get another job than someone with no job at all.

I am not Dutch.