********, Is It Needed?

[NoOneShouldStopLove]

My fiancee wants me on FB because "everyone else has it." She says VISA people will think it strangely I do not have it, and others have been denied and scrutinized for it.
Is true? FB is crap and drama to me.

[PKumar01]

FB is probably more for "proof of relationship"

I think your fiancee might have a valid point. It might seem strange that someone doesn't have a ********. FB is a good platform for engaged couples to share their experience with their other family members. To the consular, it's a way of validating that you and your fiance have a real bond and your families are involved.

Is it worth for you to create a FB now? it's up to you. I don't know if the consular will bring it up during the interview.
But definitely you've got to have some kind of social media intermingling with your fiancee to prove your relationship, I would think.

What do you think?
Hope this helps!

[NoOneShouldStopLove]

My FB account has been disabled for three years (and I only used it fox six months).

It should not be strange. Does every need to have a XBOX? Does everyone need to really have social networking to prove they are (partially) human? Will it not be strange I just activate it out of the blue? My family/friends rarely know her, to avoid flame wars from them. Even if I activate it, I have nothing to share with the public. I got not time for that. Way too busy to update the world.

Social media can not be the be all in a relationship.

So if I activate it, connect with her, then what? Have people judge me and send out rants? I already have to delete 3/4s of the people on the list if I reconnect to the account anyway.

So I am looking for facts if it is going to be an issue or what, because will it not seem "strange" to them we become friends a year and half after meeting, and I post nothing?

I appreciate the info, but I really need to find out if I have to deal with FB drama for this.

[immihelp]

There is no requirement of having ******** account. If you don't want it, don't have it.

There are other ways of communicating. Communication is what matters, not the medium. And it does not have to be constant. Just like in the old days is enough.

[PKumar01]

Fb

Yeah, I totally agree with FB not being a requirement. In fact, I didn't have anything from FB when I sent over "proof of relationship" evidence and it was perfectly fine. Like the administrator said, it's more about communication and showing that you're involved in each others' lives.
And to your point, it's going to look very strange that you decided to activate your FB right before the interview. So yeah, I agree don't activate it, and don't bring it up.