HI,
I need some help understanding my options after divorce. I brought my now ex wife and her boy here on a k1 and k2 visa from the Philippines. We got married and had the first interview. They both have their two year green card and are about to apply for the 10 year residency card. Less than a year of being married I realized she was not being honest with me and told a lot of lies. Keep in mind that in the year we were married we never consummated the marriage. That was her doing and definitely not my choice. We had a big argument where I caught her in a few lies and realized I was being played in a way. She left that day and returned the next day with the police to get her things. We had only been married about 10 months when she moved out. I filed for divorce immediately and we were divorced about three months later. She has since moved to another state to live with her Sister who has been here for about 10 years. Her mother lives in another state and also came here on a K1 visa.
Now that her two year card is about to expire she is planning to apply for the 10 year card and is asking me to give her my tax transcripts for the year we were married and I don't want to give them. I originally filed my taxes as married filing separately, but her moms husband convinced me to amend it and file jointly for the larger discount claiming her and her boy as dependents. I did that and gave her half of it even with us getting divorced.
I don't think she set out to deceive me. But, in her own words, the only reason she agreed to the marriage was because of pressure from her family because they thought I could provide a better life for her and her boy. Even though we had sex the second time I traveled to Manila to see her, we never consummated the marriage. Its like the girl I met and the girl I married were emotionally two different people. I don't think she should be able to stay as the marriage was not legitimate in my eyes. But, I just want to move on and be left alone.
What are my options and what should I be doing?
I appreciate any advice you may have.
Thanks
I need some help understanding my options after divorce. I brought my now ex wife and her boy here on a k1 and k2 visa from the Philippines. We got married and had the first interview. They both have their two year green card and are about to apply for the 10 year residency card. Less than a year of being married I realized she was not being honest with me and told a lot of lies. Keep in mind that in the year we were married we never consummated the marriage. That was her doing and definitely not my choice. We had a big argument where I caught her in a few lies and realized I was being played in a way. She left that day and returned the next day with the police to get her things. We had only been married about 10 months when she moved out. I filed for divorce immediately and we were divorced about three months later. She has since moved to another state to live with her Sister who has been here for about 10 years. Her mother lives in another state and also came here on a K1 visa.
Now that her two year card is about to expire she is planning to apply for the 10 year card and is asking me to give her my tax transcripts for the year we were married and I don't want to give them. I originally filed my taxes as married filing separately, but her moms husband convinced me to amend it and file jointly for the larger discount claiming her and her boy as dependents. I did that and gave her half of it even with us getting divorced.
I don't think she set out to deceive me. But, in her own words, the only reason she agreed to the marriage was because of pressure from her family because they thought I could provide a better life for her and her boy. Even though we had sex the second time I traveled to Manila to see her, we never consummated the marriage. Its like the girl I met and the girl I married were emotionally two different people. I don't think she should be able to stay as the marriage was not legitimate in my eyes. But, I just want to move on and be left alone.
What are my options and what should I be doing?
I appreciate any advice you may have.
Thanks
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