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[amiej]

I have been in a relationship with someone for 3 yrs. He is from Jamaica. I am from the U.S. I want him to come see me and would consider marrying him one day but I would want him to come check out things first. I wish that he could just apply for the tourist visa but I am afraid that he will be denied a B2 visa because if he answers honestly they will think he intends on staying. I think that my parents would have a nervous breakdown if he arrived and we were married within the 90 days. Anyone have any suggestions??

[bella]

I have been in a relationship with someone for 3 yrs. He is from Jamaica. I am from the U.S. I want him to come see me and would consider marrying him one day but I would want him to come check out things first. I wish that he could just apply for the tourist visa but I am afraid that he will be denied a B2 visa because if he answers honestly they will think he intends on staying. I think that my parents would have a nervous breakdown if he arrived and we were married within the 90 days. Anyone have any suggestions??

He should be fine coming in just to visit....and he would be honest in saying that he didn't have any intentions of getting married while there.
Have him come and check it out like you want it to...and then if everythings good when he goes home start the fiance visa process.