We have a real problem, despite all of our precautions. We went through the whole process - got the K1 visa, got married, filed and received the 'green card'. We were so excited - no more immigration for almost 2 years!
Then I was reading the newspaper. According to the article, marriages performed by certain types of 'ministers' are not valid in my state. Unfortunately, we believe we had that type of 'minister', which makes it sound like maybe we aren't actually married! We're too afraid to check with anyone about it, but can't imagine waiting and wondering to find out if anyone picks up on it. I already had one sleepless night over this (just read about it last night). In a regular, non-K1 situation, we would just quietly get remarried and not worry about it. As all of you know, though, in this case, it's much more complicated than that. So far, it seems nobody has noticed - we were able to file with the courthouse, get copies of our marriage license and everything. It mentioned in the article that in one county, a marriage was invalidated (after many months) because of the type of minister.
So now, if someone in immigration picks up on it (say, when we're filing to remove the conditions), what will happen? Even if we remarry now, I don't know if that will solve the problem since he already got his green card. Of course, if we don't remarry, we have other problems too. If something happened to one of us - especially me - he could be deported, there would be all kinds of problems with legal matters (Wills, life insurance, jointly held property, etc), and probably other issues too.
Has anyone encountered (or even just heard about) a situation like this before?
I'm really worried..........
Then I was reading the newspaper. According to the article, marriages performed by certain types of 'ministers' are not valid in my state. Unfortunately, we believe we had that type of 'minister', which makes it sound like maybe we aren't actually married! We're too afraid to check with anyone about it, but can't imagine waiting and wondering to find out if anyone picks up on it. I already had one sleepless night over this (just read about it last night). In a regular, non-K1 situation, we would just quietly get remarried and not worry about it. As all of you know, though, in this case, it's much more complicated than that. So far, it seems nobody has noticed - we were able to file with the courthouse, get copies of our marriage license and everything. It mentioned in the article that in one county, a marriage was invalidated (after many months) because of the type of minister.
So now, if someone in immigration picks up on it (say, when we're filing to remove the conditions), what will happen? Even if we remarry now, I don't know if that will solve the problem since he already got his green card. Of course, if we don't remarry, we have other problems too. If something happened to one of us - especially me - he could be deported, there would be all kinds of problems with legal matters (Wills, life insurance, jointly held property, etc), and probably other issues too.
Has anyone encountered (or even just heard about) a situation like this before?
I'm really worried..........
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