I submitted the form "Withdrawal of petition on behalf of relative" when I started suspecting different intentions from my wife. I was in the process of going through divorce, but she started to show her true intentions. This document was submitted at my local USCIS office two weeks ago.
Anyways, I want to know what is the effect of this document. When is it effective, when does she officially stand as illegal in the states. Do I have to withdraw from the I-864 to free myself from any further financial burden? Or does this document (withdrawal of petition on behalf of relative) automatically free me up from any financial obligations? I want to be sure of this, since I submitted the AOS papers on June and want to be sure this is effective before she gets her AOS.
She (my "wife") has told me that at least something she has to get from all of this, some pice of the pie. This really tells a lot about what that person really wants from this relationship. Telling her that I didn't want to be with her anymore didn't make her mad. Telling her that I stopped the AOS process got her really mad. Go figure. By the way, the whole relationship was a disaster, and trying to make it work was useless. Yes, it's my fault that I never paid attention to the signs.
She refuses to sign the divorce papers. So I don't know what to do. Given the fact that she distorts tha facts and lies, she can be a menace in front of a court judge or god knows what she can say to run me over. Really, I was very considerate with her, I gave her all that I could even though I am not rich, and I gave her more than enough chances to redeem herself. I lost feelings in the way, and I took a lot of beatings too (emotional).
If anyone can help, I will gladly appreciate it.
Thank you.
Anyways, I want to know what is the effect of this document. When is it effective, when does she officially stand as illegal in the states. Do I have to withdraw from the I-864 to free myself from any further financial burden? Or does this document (withdrawal of petition on behalf of relative) automatically free me up from any financial obligations? I want to be sure of this, since I submitted the AOS papers on June and want to be sure this is effective before she gets her AOS.
She (my "wife") has told me that at least something she has to get from all of this, some pice of the pie. This really tells a lot about what that person really wants from this relationship. Telling her that I didn't want to be with her anymore didn't make her mad. Telling her that I stopped the AOS process got her really mad. Go figure. By the way, the whole relationship was a disaster, and trying to make it work was useless. Yes, it's my fault that I never paid attention to the signs.
She refuses to sign the divorce papers. So I don't know what to do. Given the fact that she distorts tha facts and lies, she can be a menace in front of a court judge or god knows what she can say to run me over. Really, I was very considerate with her, I gave her all that I could even though I am not rich, and I gave her more than enough chances to redeem herself. I lost feelings in the way, and I took a lot of beatings too (emotional).
If anyone can help, I will gladly appreciate it.
Thank you.
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