More evidence of relationship to support my application

[noughskrilla]

My wife and her mother live in NJ.They both use the same family name(Jessica and Wendy Brown) my wife is always busy so she never had time to send money to me so instead she allow her mom to send it to me...i shall be goin to interview soon and i will like to kno if i can use the reciepts of monies i recieved from her mom as another evidence durin my interview since my wife and her mom shares the same family name,just a proof of my relationship with that family. Please help me

[nichole]

You could show anything you like. I personally think it looks strange that the mom is sending you money and not your wife. It doesn't make your relationship sound real if the wife doesn't have time for you. Why is mom involved? Is mom gaining something by helping you get to the US? I'm not trying to judge you or accuse you of anything. I'm just saying what my first reaction would be if you presented that evidence to me. It would make me want to question you even harder. Try to see it from a stranger's point of view, then decide if it will help your case.

[noughskrilla]

Nichole,i understand but hell no mom is not gaining anything by helpin me gettin to the states the truth is our relationship was born by her mom.it was my wife who gave the money to her mom to send to me when i stop workin due to circustances and that was two times within that periord,my wife has time for me but they both used to live in the same house so when she thought of sending me something her mom wld be like'Jessica you go to work and leave it up for me to send to him'So mom contributed to our love and we still include her in most of our moves..i still need more advise from you.