Hi,
I am 40 years old and a UKC. My girlfriend is a couple of years younger and a UKC but, a permanent resident in the USA. We have been together for nearly 3 years now and 5000 miles apart. She has been there for over 15 years when she got married to her husband who is in the forces. Their marriage was over a few years ago but, only now are they getting divorced. They have children between them and so she will be staying in the USA with the children. We want to be together and the only option is for me to move over there. We plan to get married and maybe have a child of our own depending on health checks as we are older. We have made various trips to see each other both over there and over here. She stayed here in the UK for a few months whilst letting her children get to know her side of the family. We spent all our time together. The children know me and like me as i like them. It was heartbreaking when she went back to the USA but, I saw what our schooling system was doing to the kids and was 100% behind her going back.
Once she has her US citizenship and is divorced from her husband, we will be getting married and she will therefore be sponsoring me to live and work there and be a family. If I could get there under my own steam, i would. I have money (not $500,000 though) as my mortgage is nearly paid off. I can buy a nice house outright when i move over there for us to either live in or rent out. She already has a house as well. Alternatively, it is enough money to support me for a long time which is proof that I wont be trying to claim anything off the state. I have a background in computers, ran my own business and now work for the Rail industry in planning.The USA is currently looking into expanding it rail system and is preparing to develop a high speed rail service based on the European system. My experience (all be it only 2 years so far) should provide me with some suitable credentials.
We also have proof of our relationship in emails (the good and the bad times), travel to see each other, phone bills etc.
From what I can tell, the best visa to do, is the K-1? I dont see the point of getting married and then me having to leave the USA for months until a CR-1
visa is approved. We are getting married because we love each other, want to spend the rest of our lives together and we are both old enough and mature enough to wait for a fiance visa to be granted. After all, we have been having a long distance relationship for 3 years. There was a suggestion to get married and then apply for a K-3 which would allow me to stay in the USA until my visa was approved. But, reading all the information, I would still have to come back to the UK until the K-3 was approved and both the K-1 and the K-3 (which is now the CR-1 i think) pretty much take the same amount of time to be approved give or take a month or so.
I guess my questions are:-
1. Am i right in my information?
2. Can anyone forsee any pitfalls i.e. reasons not to approve my visa?
3. Is there any further information that people have that might be helpful to us?
4. When I do start filling in the forms, should i fill them in myself or use a trusted immigration company, as I have heard that a lot of visas get sent
back due to be incorrectly filled out?
Thank you in advance for any information.
I am 40 years old and a UKC. My girlfriend is a couple of years younger and a UKC but, a permanent resident in the USA. We have been together for nearly 3 years now and 5000 miles apart. She has been there for over 15 years when she got married to her husband who is in the forces. Their marriage was over a few years ago but, only now are they getting divorced. They have children between them and so she will be staying in the USA with the children. We want to be together and the only option is for me to move over there. We plan to get married and maybe have a child of our own depending on health checks as we are older. We have made various trips to see each other both over there and over here. She stayed here in the UK for a few months whilst letting her children get to know her side of the family. We spent all our time together. The children know me and like me as i like them. It was heartbreaking when she went back to the USA but, I saw what our schooling system was doing to the kids and was 100% behind her going back.
Once she has her US citizenship and is divorced from her husband, we will be getting married and she will therefore be sponsoring me to live and work there and be a family. If I could get there under my own steam, i would. I have money (not $500,000 though) as my mortgage is nearly paid off. I can buy a nice house outright when i move over there for us to either live in or rent out. She already has a house as well. Alternatively, it is enough money to support me for a long time which is proof that I wont be trying to claim anything off the state. I have a background in computers, ran my own business and now work for the Rail industry in planning.The USA is currently looking into expanding it rail system and is preparing to develop a high speed rail service based on the European system. My experience (all be it only 2 years so far) should provide me with some suitable credentials.
We also have proof of our relationship in emails (the good and the bad times), travel to see each other, phone bills etc.
From what I can tell, the best visa to do, is the K-1? I dont see the point of getting married and then me having to leave the USA for months until a CR-1
visa is approved. We are getting married because we love each other, want to spend the rest of our lives together and we are both old enough and mature enough to wait for a fiance visa to be granted. After all, we have been having a long distance relationship for 3 years. There was a suggestion to get married and then apply for a K-3 which would allow me to stay in the USA until my visa was approved. But, reading all the information, I would still have to come back to the UK until the K-3 was approved and both the K-1 and the K-3 (which is now the CR-1 i think) pretty much take the same amount of time to be approved give or take a month or so.
I guess my questions are:-
1. Am i right in my information?
2. Can anyone forsee any pitfalls i.e. reasons not to approve my visa?
3. Is there any further information that people have that might be helpful to us?
4. When I do start filling in the forms, should i fill them in myself or use a trusted immigration company, as I have heard that a lot of visas get sent
back due to be incorrectly filled out?
Thank you in advance for any information.
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