I compiled a list of about 40 questions for my mother and have her reading through them every day. Then I quiz her over the phone rewording questions to see if she can answer to the point. She is sportively going through it but I feel very very bad for the trouble she is having to undergo. Our parents are old and most of them prefer the independence they have in India. Most of them would much rather visit us occassionally than live here permanently. But the consulate apparently does not share this view. Their decisions are sometimes so arbitary and subjective and they fail to recognise the pain and trouble we have to go through not to mention the tension for our parents!

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